So, you are divorced and a single parent? It is the most overwhelming and stressful situation, as you have to be concerned about your child care and upbringing on your own without any support. Most of the time it is not expected from your partner, and you also don't plan to bring your children on your own. But, unfortunately, circumstances can change, and unavoidable can happen. At the core of life, you might feel weaken & emotionally broken but, you need to live in practicality. Face the real life and engage yourself in productive and positive things. Because you have to balance work and home together like cooking, school runs and another side by side activities and necessities. Most of the people think to play both roles, but it is a suggestion that you should only do what you can do. We are here with some guidelines for a single parent to keep them organized & stress-free:
Get some support group
You must put efforts to plan your new family, you can look in your society or find a partner online if you want or need support.
Support from friends & family
It's a fortune that you are blessed with invaluable friends & family, and then it makes your life little bit easier. They provide you emotional as well as financial support and pamper you with endless love and care. Most of the single parents don't take any help from their closed ones, but there is much organization from which you can take support.
Make an emergency contact list and name the people who can help you out in troublesome situations. You just decide who is going to be there in an emergency.
Talk with your children at the end of the day to know about them and spend time for fun n play. Find time for yourself also, plan parties with your friends and family, go outside, often cook and do what you love to.
Focus on personal growth
Focus on personal growth, empower yourself, learn new things, go outside, such things will boost your self-esteem and helps in stress reduction.
Take a break
Take a break to go on holidays with your kids and spend happy times. You can visit your family, relative or friend's home. It will minimize tough time and cherish you with lovely memories.
Learn to live alone
It is the loveliest feeling if you let go and get over the past. You will feel joyous and happy in your company and thoughts. Once you learn it, you can deal with anything.