Getting married and hoping to live entire wedding life happily & successfully is everyone’s dream. Who doesn’t want to live a happy and fulfilling life? At the beginning of a relationship everything seems to be fine but with the passes of time many problems starts knocking your door step and due to lack of understandings and misbelieves these tiny problems begins to bloom. Being a couple, you understand the emotions & values of a relationship but quite tenderness, aggression and egoistic behavior takes you both to the ‘I am done’ state. Rather than sorting out the issues, many initiate enmeshing in it.
Many ignore the discontent and mishaps happening in their relation and burst out in the end. And then one of the partners suddenly announces that he/she is done with the marriage and wants to move out or ends up the marriage. One of the partners got shocked as he/she had not been any idea of such mess. But you should give a second chance to everything and when it comes to that big decision, a second chance must have a place to take. Here are some tips to focus on before filling a divorce and it can save your relationship, have a look:
Prepare for action
If you really want to save your relationship and serious about it then prepare an action plan to sort out things as soon as possible. The steps mentioned below will guide you to initiate a strong action plan.
Always speak your actions louder than your words. Never seek mercy and reflect guilt, rather use smart actions to fall your partner in guilt and make him emotional. Help your partner to remember happy times and why you were together. Remind them your positive qualities and skip showing ‘poor me’ attitude. Stop commenting on your partner and start appreciating their qualities.
Ask and clarify what changes are required
Make a list of all negative comments, criticism, complaints, angry comments and other causes responsible for divorce like situation. Make an action plan to fix all the things either it is your ex, relatives, siblings or too much professionalism.
Look your best
Try to improve your appearance and it will definitely work out.
Forget all the hurts
Forget all past hurts and resentments that may have been the factors that lead to filling for a divorce.
Believe in yourself and your efforts these things will work out and you will be able to save your marriage.