When we think about getting married, first thought comes in our mind to have a perfect life partner. Everyone dream of having a partner with whom they can share their emotions and spend whole life happily instead of all up & downs. It is the greatest desire of a married couple to love and feel loved and enjoy a happy & healthy relationship. But the story doesn't end here, what about the past hurts you have caged in your heart. If you are facing failures in your married life, then you should think twice that you have moved on or still stuck in painful memories. If you had a serious relationship and mentally not prepared to accept the present even if you are married, it can spoil your married life. Don't scream; you can heal the pain with these easy tips:

Learn to love yourself

Don't hurt yourself thinking about the past and failure of your love life. Have you ever given little chance to think about how much you love yourself, come out of regrets and nurture yourself with love and enjoy the beauty of being you and for you?

Don't dwell on the past

Stop regretting the things, when a relationship ends you might dwell what you did wrong. Thinking about it, again and again, might seem productive but you can't fix the change, and in the end, only you will suffer. You should focus on the happy moments, present situations, friends who love you the most and always there for you, lessons you have learned for future. These things will help you release the regrets.

Don't jab yourself

Don't poke yourself that you made the biggest mistake of your life, things could have worked out, and you wouldn't suffer the pain, etc. There is nothing good going down the track. Keep in mind, you are a human & you can make mistakes also you have the right to feel love again. If you want to feel love then first you need to give it to your partner.

Let yourself heal with time

Every wound heals with time, you got shocked when your relationship ends, then you cry, argue, shout and even get angry, but it doesn't make sense. As time passes, you will stop reacting and keep yourself neutral, but internally you suffer a lot and sometimes even feel lost. Then you will start accepting what had happened and forgive yourself.

Enjoy the present moment

Let go of what happened in the past and enjoy the present moment. See the beauty and feel the happiness reside in your married life. Enjoy the little things and try to nourish your partner with love. Appreciate your partner and put every effort to make your partner happy, this way you will find yourself engaged in your married life.